If I had a dollar for every time someone told me that the trials that I’ve gone through would be used for the benefit of someone else and sometimes, not even about me - I’d probably have 100,000$. But if a dollar was taken from me, every time I received those words with even .2% frustration cause I felt like that wasn’t fair? I’d probably be broke. Sometimes, hearing that this pain wasn't about me didn’t comfort me and sometimes, it made me feel worse. Until moments like thes